Carlyle Bernard, a cherished father, grandfather, husband, brother, and friend, peacefully transitioned from this life, leaving behind a powerful legacy of love, integrity, and devotion.
Born on April 13, 1943, in the Republic of Trinidad and Tobago to Bertram and Roseanna Bernard, Carlyle was raised with strong values of family and community. He grew up alongside his cherished sister, Marjorie Stewart, and attended Sisters Road Anglican Elementary School. Carlyle began his professional journey with Texaco Oil Company in Trinidad, and in 1967, fate brought him to Mayaro, where he met the love of his life, Phyllis Defour. The two were married on June 21, 1970, and soon after, they began a new chapter together in Brooklyn, New York.
Upon arriving in the U.S., Carlyle worked as a mechanic while building a new life with his wife and raising their growing family. He was a devoted and nurturing father to Kamilah, Sharifa, and Saeed Bernard, always putting family first and strived to provide guidance, and unwavering support.
He eventually found his career home at the Metropolitan Transportation Authority (MTA), where he worked as a Car Maintainer A. His hard work and expertise earned him respect among his peers and a secure future for his loved ones. In 1998, he proudly became a naturalized U.S. citizen, a milestone he held with deep pride.
Carlyle was a man of faith and principle, often attending mosque services and following the teachings of the Honorable Minister Louis Farrakhan. His spiritual grounding and love for his cultural heritage guided much of his life, as did his passion for health and wellness. After retiring in 2006, he fully embraced a lifestyle centered around clean eating, daily workouts, and thoughtful living.
In retirement, he found joy in caring for his beloved grandchildren, Kamal Marin and Amira Bernard. He cherished his role as a grandfather, always present, protective, and full of love.
Known affectionately in his community as “Mr. Utica” after a video of him went viral on social media, Carlyle became a neighborhood legend. His powerful voice, keen intellect, and insightful takes on politics and Black culture resonated with many. Whether at a local health food store or simply chatting on the street, he brought wisdom and humor wherever he went.
Carlyle was the kind of man who never hesitated to help those in need. He was family-oriented, community-driven, and deeply respected. His memory will live on in the hearts of those who knew him, and his spirit will continue to inspire all who were fortunate enough to cross his path.
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Carlyle Bernard, a cherished father, grandfather, husband, brother, and friend, peacefully transitioned from this life, leaving behind a powerful legacy of love, integrity, and devotion.
Born on April 13, 1943, in the Republic of Trinidad and Tobago to Bertram and Roseanna Bernard, Carlyle was raised with strong values of fami